October 2011 – WhosChrisHughes.com

This post is part 3 of 3 for the how to improve your self-esteem series. If you haven’t read the first parts yet, you can read these at: How to Improve Your Self-Esteem Part 1How to Improve Your Self-Esteem Part 2 Otherwise, let’s get right back to the post! Hustle Your Ass Off &Make The Plan Come True This is the hardest part for everyone, including me. I like to be lazy sometimes and some days don’t feel like doing anything at all. I’m not sure if you know what that’s like, but it happens for me from time to time. Hard work is hard. We don’t always want to do it, especially when it’s raining or snowing out and your bed is super comfy. After living in NY for most of my life, I had a really hard time getting out of bed in the morning during the winter months. Now that I’m in Florida, I have an easier time waking up and getting my hustle on. That’s helped me a lot. Seeing the sun each morning gets me motivated to get up and get on the grind. How Serious Are You? If you are serious about making a change, you are going to need to put in the time. You can’t just wish and wish that you’ll make more money out of thin air, or that your perfect girl will show up at my door. (I keep hoping this will happen but no luck yet) If you have financial goals that you want to reach, work your ass off until you reach that goal. If you are just being lazy and hoping your goals will suddenly be reached, you’ve gotta quit dreaming. If you haven’t gotten your dream job yet because you’re to busy being lazy, get off your ass and work towards getting that job. Get out there and work. Get a part-time job to make more money, stay up an hour later and create content for an information product you create or write articles to drive traffic to an affiliate product that will help make you money. If you’ve got relationship goals, sitting at your house isn’t going to help you meet that perfect girl. Well, it’s possible but you’ll have to sign up for online dating sites so that you can at least communicate with girls. One of my friends put out a course on getting dates through PlentyOfFish.com called Plenty of Fish Secrets that you can use to get into online dating if that’s your thing. It’s a good course I’ve gotta admit. I’ve met a couple cool girls so far thanks to that course. It’s a combination of all of these things that’s helps you improve your self-esteem and makes you more confident in your life. There is a balance in your life that you need to find in order to truly be happy and it doesn’t just happen. You’ve got to work for it. Part of it is getting your health in order, another part is getting your relationships in order, the next part is getting your finances in order. Without these you simply cannot be happy. Take the time to find out what it is that makes you happy and start to do more of these things. You will naturally become happier and in turn your self-esteem will rise.